Do You Know That Lost Love Can Ruin Your Life
Yes, if
you lose the person you love it can ruin your life, through stress, depression,
over eating, starving, alcohol abuse, promiscuity and many other ills. You try
to be strong but deep inside you are dying slowly. Memories of the good times
never stop flowing through your mind. The hugs, the kisses, the good times
spent together are all but distant memories. If you do not do something about
it, it can ruin your life, more often than not, for good. It is worse than
death. Lost love increases stress levels.
Every time you think of those good times that are
not around any more your stress levels rise. You feel unhappy. You feel sick.
You feel unworthy. And if there is anything that can actually kill you is
stress. High stress levels culminates into depressed immune system. It is true.
You start getting unexplained illnesses such as headaches, pimples, skin
ulcerations, swellings in the armpits, swellings on the ankles and feet, common
colds, and lack of appetite.
All these
are manifestations of a drop in your immune system that have been triggered by
your high stress levels, which can be traced to your current situation of
having lost your lover. Lost love in may lead to alcohol abuse. A person who
previously drunk occasionally, starts drinking daily and heavily. This affects
your life terribly. Your work suffers. It may lead to accidents. It may lead to
further loses say your job, your life and even alienates friends and family
around you. You are not in control your faculties any more. You may react by covering
your sorrow of lost love in food, there by over eating. You balloon to sizes
never before seen. Every time you over eat and balloon you worsen an already
bad situation. You become more unattractive to both your former lover and
possible suitors. Over wait usually triggers other health issues.
Other folks do the complete opposite, they shun
food. Lack of food has the complete opposite of over eating. You become skinny.
You also become unattractive. You know, people who are naturally small look the
part and those that have lost weight due to some cause are visible from a mile
away. Every person should look the way you are naturally molded. Any extreme
from your normal body is unattractive. The worst bit is that lost love can lead
to physical and mental instability. Those un controllable thoughts of the good
times that have ended can actually lead you to start doing abnormal and
unsocial things. It may lead to promiscuity to deal with your loss.
You may become quarrel some or withdrawn. These
are signs of you losing your mental faculties. You may not see it, but those
around you do. By all means work on getting back your lost love as soon as
possible. It is possible. It is not a healthy situation to be lonely,
especially if you still love that person and can not let go. You can do it and
you deserve better.