Do You Know That Lost Love Can Ruin Your Life
Yes, if you lose the person you love it can ruin your life, through stress, depression, over eating, starving, alcohol abuse, promiscuity and many other ills. You try to be strong but deep inside you are dying slowly. Memories of the good times never stop flowing through your mind. The hugs, the kisses, the good times spent together are all but distant memories. If you do not do something about it, it can ruin your life, more often than not, for good. It is worse than death. Lost love increases stress levels.
Every time you think of those good times that are not around any more your stress levels rise. You feel unhappy. You feel sick. You feel unworthy. And if there is anything that can actually kill you is stress. High stress levels culminates into depressed immune system. It is true. You start getting unexplained illnesses such as headaches, pimples, skin ulcerations, swellings in the armpits, swellings on the ankles and feet, common colds, and lack of appetite.
All these are manifestations of a drop in your immune system that have been triggered by your high stress levels, which can be traced to your current situation of having lost your lover. Lost love in may lead to alcohol abuse. A person who previously drunk occasionally, starts drinking daily and heavily. This affects your life terribly. Your work suffers. It may lead to accidents. It may lead to further loses say your job, your life and even alienates friends and family around you. You are not in control your faculties any more. You may react by covering your sorrow of lost love in food, there by over eating. You balloon to sizes never before seen. Every time you over eat and balloon you worsen an already bad situation. You become more unattractive to both your former lover and possible suitors. Over wait usually triggers other health issues.
Other folks do the complete opposite, they shun food. Lack of food has the complete opposite of over eating. You become skinny. You also become unattractive. You know, people who are naturally small look the part and those that have lost weight due to some cause are visible from a mile away. Every person should look the way you are naturally molded. Any extreme from your normal body is unattractive. The worst bit is that lost love can lead to physical and mental instability. Those un controllable thoughts of the good times that have ended can actually lead you to start doing abnormal and unsocial things. It may lead to promiscuity to deal with your loss.
You may become quarrel some or withdrawn. These are signs of you losing your mental faculties. You may not see it, but those around you do. By all means work on getting back your lost love as soon as possible. It is possible. It is not a healthy situation to be lonely, especially if you still love that person and can not let go. You can do it and you deserve better.